Ecclesiastes 7:1-10

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Solomon, in chapters five and six, has been talking about prosperity and wealth, what it can do, what it cannot do.

He is now going to summarize in Eccl. 7:1-14 by bringing Prosperity and Adversity into balance in the plan of God for man.

The KEY to this section in verse 14a: ECCL. 7:14 In the day of prosperity be happy, But in the day of adversity consider.

The point is: Both prosperity and adversity can be mingled together by God to bring about His highest and best in our lives.

Some observations.
1. Neither prosperity or adversity are inherently good or evil. There can be ill effects from prosperity.

2. Eccl. 5:17 Throughout his life he also eats in darkness with great vexation, sickness and anger.

3. And there can be advantageous effects from adversity. We will see that in this section in verses 2-4

4. It is impossible for us to determine the results of adversity or prosperity in our lives.

5. What may seem good at the moment or bad at the moment can turn out to be the very opposite.

6. Since we cannot consider, determine, plan the outcome of either adversity or prosperity, the future is not in view. Not in our view, it is in God's view because He and He alone knows the outcome.

7. The issue then in either adversity or prosperity is how we are responding to what God has put on our plate...today.


Ecclesiastes 7:1

A good name is better than a good ointment, And the day of one's death is better than the day of one's birth.


Ointment or Perfume is an analogy to HAPPINESS, PLEASURE, PROSPERITY.

Those things are good but there is something better.

A good name or reputation. When is a person's reputation most likely to be evaluated?

At DEATH: Hence, the day of one's death is better than the day of one's birth...

Birth is a time of Happiness, the oil is applied to the new born baby, great predictions are made, father's show off their sons and daughters. But...who knows?

Hitler, Stalin, Charles Manson, were all once cute little babies who had parents who bragged about them.

But what really counts is what is said at your funeral or memorial service.

Principle: It is better to come to the end of life with a good reputation than to have a celebrated and joyful birth.

THAT Principle IS WOVEN THROUGHOUT THE NEXT 14 VERSES.

It sets the TONE as to how we are to respond to what we face in life, prosperity or adversity.

REMEMBER THE INTRUSIONS INTO HUMAN WISDOM: Death, chance, and evil. If man lives foolishly, chances are one of these will interrupt his life and then what?

Well, as a believer we know that death is in God's hands.

He has a plan for us so any luck or chance is eliminated.

And He alone can keep us from evil.


Ecclesiastes 7:2

It is better to go to a house of mourning Than to go to a house of feasting, Because that is the end of every man, And the living takes it to heart.


The word BETTER is TOWB and is found six times in this paragraph. It is a comparative term.

When we study the Bible we come into contact with the absolutes of God and His Word. But in the world we live in the midst of a lot of relativity.

Often, it is difficult to accept the relativity, the subjectivity, of our world.

We want the fallen world of fallen man to reflect the black and white absolutes of God. And it does not do it.

We need to see and to determine the things that are better. To realize that many of the decisions we must make come at the end of a string of wrongs and a string of failures and do not have some chapter and verse to make our decision for us. Hence, we need to see the things that are better.

The house of mourning is the also the house of death. We mourn the death of those we know. In doing so we do not mourn for them but for us.

Paul was very clear in telling believers that it is all right to mourn.

I Thessalonians 4:13 But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve, as do the rest who have no hope.

The ones who have no hope are the UNBELIEVER who mourn for the one who has died because they see death as an end.

We as believers mourn or grieve because of our loss, not the loss of the one who has died. The one who has died in Christ has nothing but gain. We grieve the loss of a friend, a child, a parent, a loved one.

We will miss them, but they will not miss us.

When we go to the house of mourning, a funeral or a memorial service, or even an Irish wake, we are called to consider two things.

This is the end of every man: Someday, one day, we will be in the same place as the one who has died.

Death is a commonality for every man. It is as much a part of life as life itself. Death cannot be avoided, no one will ever figure out how to live forever.

You can fast freeze a body, put Disney on Ice, do this and do that, but you and I and everyone else will die. Life, as we know it under the sun, has an end.

it has been said that we live in a death denying society. Isn't it amazing that we are able to deny something that is all around us.

Second thing is that we are to "take it to heart."

Heart is the Hebrew LEB, the inner understanding, the seat of reflection, and the place of moral decisions resulting in actions.

So we are to take it to heart, IMPERFECT TENSE, curative action but incomplete. We will never stop learning our lessons in the House of mourning.

What should we consider, what should we learn?

LIFE IS SHORT...and we need to consider that in relationship to how we live.

Do we live in enjoyment of whatever God has put on our plates that day?

The person who lives only for the future may never live because they may not have a future.

There are times in life where reflection and evaluation are very much needed. We need to consider our ways, our attitude towards what God is doing with us.

Psalm 90:12 So teach us to number our days, That we may present to Thee a heart of wisdom.

That is why the middle step in the process we are involved in is to THINK...Learn, think, and apply, so that we may present to God, in our relationship with Him, a heart of wisdom.

Illustration: With you kids, ever have to tell them to stop and think. When they do not stop and think they do some pretty foolish things don't they. Well, believer, I wonder how often God looks at us and just says, would you stop and think. And if we did we would have a heart of wisdom.

HINT: You want to know what keeps us from having all that God wants us to have with Him? Watch you kids, what they do is so often what we do with our heaven Father. We go through the spiritual life not thinking and acting foolish.


Ecclesiastes 7:3


It is because of that need to consider, to think, to reflect that Solomon says.


Sorrow is better than laughter, For when a face is sad a heart may be happy.

The word SORROW is KAHAS and would be better translated in this context as GRIEF, the grief of going to a house of mourning.

This GRIEF is better that LAUGHTER: Why? Because of the previous statement. It causes us to consider, to think, to number our days.

Now Solomon is not advocating that we never laugh. Even God laughs (Psalm 2:4 He who sits in the heavens laughs). We are told in the beatitudes that weeping and mourning will give way to laughter.

Laughter, having a good time, occasional times of folly are great. But that is not our context. Solomon is saying that there are those who live foolishly and all they have is laughter. He deals with them in v 5-6 as he examines the vanity of foolishness.

But here, the somber serious heart is better because it is causing a person to reflect.

Principle OF APPLICATION: We need time to reflect on our lives. To consider what is really important and what is not. To consider that God is in charge of our lives and that He gives and He takes away, and what ever He gives is good.

For when a face is sad a heart may be happy.

The sad face is a reflection of a serious mood and the serious mood is the one that considers life in God's plan.

The statement THE HEART MAY BE HAPPY uses a comparative verb which is YAW-TAB as a Qal Imperfect.

The imperfect in this parsing is future. It looks ahead to what will come out of this serious reflection that one does.

Principle: Seriousness, somberness, a face that is deep into reflection is not bad, out it will come great good.


Ecclesiastes 7:4


Where is the mind going to be set?

The mind of the wise is in the house of mourning, While the mind of fools is in the house of pleasure.


The word WISE is CHA-CAM and when used of a class of men, as here, it refers to those who are learned and wise.

That is the class of men who attend the house of mourning.

The mind of the fool is in the house of pleasure.

I recently heard someone say that they do not attend funerals and memorial services because they make them sad. That is just the point, they are intended to do just that.

Our culture today places emphasis on pleasure, hedonism, and the result is a selfcentered society.

We need reminders to number our days so that we might present to God a wise heart.


Ecclesiastes 7:5,6

It is better to listen to the rebuke of a wise man Than for one to listen to the song of fools.

For as the crackling of thorn bushes under a pot, So is the laughter of the fool, And this too is futility.


Here we have a principle and an Illustration of the principle.

The principle is that there are times that a rebuke is better than a song.

The theme of this passage is that there are times when God gives us prosperity and there are times that God gives us adversity and since He is good whatever He gives us is good.

These can mingle together in His plan to bring about His highest and best in us.

The finite limited mind of man cannot understand this.

But here is something we can understand.

The rebuke of the wise is better than the song of the fool.

If a man does not understand that he is destine for difficulty in life.

Too often leaders surround themselves with YES men and listen to the song of fools and reject the rebuke of those who are wise.

In the NT rebuke is part of the communication of God's Word.

II Timothy 4:2 Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction.

Now Solomon illustrates this principle.

Ever have to start a fire in a camp fire or fireplace. You want to put in a big log and use a little match right. But that won't work. You have to put in kindling. But kindling alone won't work.

Oh it gives off a great blaze and crackles but then is consumed.

That is the crackling of thorn bushes under a pot. A lot of flare but very little fire and no heat.

The irony is that at first it appears to be a good fire, but soon it burns itself up.

The song of the fool is like the kindling, the rebuke of the wise man is the fire that burns well into the night.

v 7-10 THE TEMPTATIONS OF ADVERSITY AND PROSPERITY.

Now with either there are built in temptations to reject what God has given for that day and for that time. Both of these offer also the temptation to abandon wisdom which calls for us to live life wisely because life is short.


Ecclesiastes 7:7

For oppression makes a wise man mad, And a bribe corrupts the heart.


The desire to have prosperity might even temp a wise man to take a bribe.

He may give in to the pressure of adversity-oppression and end up a fool or worse, a criminal who takes a bribe.

Why do we have this former CIA operative charged with treason. He was once a wise man, but gave into the temptation of some easy money and sold out his country.


Ecclesiastes 7:8

The end of a matter is better than its beginning; Patience of spirit is better than haughtiness of spirit.


We all suffer the temptation of impatience. When in adversity we are impatient for it to end, and with prosperity we are impatient in wanting more and more.

So many things begin with a bang and end with a whimper. The great hopes that kick off great plans and then die.

Patience is better...Haughtiness is not.

This is GAW-BAWH which means pride that come from self promotion.

Too much of this, too little of patience.


Ecclesiastes 7:9

Do not be eager in your heart to be angry, For anger resides in the bosom of fools.


Another temptation is anger and bitterness. Anger can result from adversity but also in the midst of prosperity. Prosperous people get angry at not having enough or having to pay too much in taxes, insurance, etc.

This anger can settle in as a life style of bitterness. This word for anger can also include grief and frustration.

The FOOL is the one who has anger on the inside. Just there, always under the surface, a life that is ready to explode.


Ecclesiastes 7:10

Do not say, Why is it that the former days were better than these? For it is not from wisdom that you ask about this.


This is the one that reminds me how relevant this book it. Nearly 3000 years ago Solomon encountered those who like today long for the good old days.

And the say the good old days were better . . .

But were they, and even if they were we cannot turn back the clock. We are here today. Yesterday is gone.

WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT THOSE WHO live in the future, who live for tomorrow, here are the ones who live for the past.

IN EITHER CASE YOU DO NOT LIVE for today.

Remember the apostle prayer...give us this day our daily bread.

Luke 9:23 And He was saying to them all, "If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.

We are to live for this day before the Lord, not tomorrow, and not yesterday.

Solomon adds it is not from wisdom that these things are said.

So we are forewarned, in the midst of prosperity or in the midst of adversity we will be tempted to abandon wisdom and live the life of a fool.


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